Was talking with willow about her girlfriend that did she ever done anything that makes him feel "oh man, it is because of her age."
However, he told my that, girls doing things capriciously, without planning, don't care much about the consequences, is not because of their age but their nature: exclude those women who put their goals on being rich, career successful, generally, girls' goal will on family ultimately, so they don't have the commensurate social responsibilities with men, so they can do whatever they want literally.
Same thought. So you girls don't ever tell me again that you girls are maturer than us mentally, no, you don't because you don't really have to face the result after failure.
Are you sure about your comment "girl can do whatever they want literally"? Because, I don't think so. Sure, I do agree with you that women don't have commensurate social responsibilities with men, that dosen't mean they can do whatever they want, tho. And women do have to face the consequences afterward, okay? Sometimes it's even more rigid than men is, especially on the sexial terms. In the end, I believe that girl is more mature than men with the same age, coming up with there must be some statistics reports discussing about this. And, since it's statistics, there must be some outliers;)
ReplyDeleteu didn't really look into the statistics details, that is before graduated from college.
ReplyDeleteand their cost is less than men, they more like to choose the decision, they can take the consequences more easily.
Like, Girls can pursue their interests, careers, like arts, designing, they don't need to succeed to the degree that can afford a family, however, men do. I'm not saying they don't want to, but the costs is far way less than men's. I only specified on those in the society wants men to do the job that breed a whole family.
women who make money to hold a family are not the major right?
That is so true. I totally agree with you. Why girls can do that, but boys can't?
ReplyDeleteHey, I had thought this before, why girls don't have to pay such attention to the society's appreciation, they can say the things like, I just want to have a steady life, I just want to marry a good husband, without being disdained; on the other hand, if a man say so, he will be treated as a looser totally.
I can tell you why we male have to face this, but I can't explain the reason for you.
Why? That is the social responsibility I guess; our culture expect man to start their own business, to make the living for the whole family, to be a somebody, etc. Yeah, it's such a big load, but how can you complain about that by holding more opportunities than women do. You can't argue that most of the people who control the power are male. So, quoting with the Spider Man's line "More power comes with more responsibilities."
In the end, why we have this kind of things if we have amphoteric equality? I don't know. Maybe amphoteric equality is just the illusion man built to delude women.
gender equality can also be amphoteric equality??
ReplyDeleteAbout gender equality, like I said before, that is shit.
There is nothing to talk about equality, only about freedom.
Man got more resposibilties is because of in the pass, we in agriculture society, that need stronger to do those things.
Nowadays, things need lots of energy are less compared to various things people can do in this era. As a results, I think this traditional concept will change, like western doing now.
And by the way, still there are things that women do better than man and vice versa. So, don't say we discriminate women. That is just truth. ha let me think of the movie "the dictator" he says, in his world, there is no female drivers, hahahaha I like that!!